Parenting A Gifted Child
Since gifted children develop a much faster rate than
what is considered normal, parenting gifted children will
require adjustments in parenting as well as teaching in
order to continue their development at an optimal rate.
A gifted child's development can pose some interesting
problems for the parent because although the child is
cognitively advanced they are probably developing at a
much more normal rate physically and emotionally.
As a parent of a gifted child, stay involved and engaged
in their developmental program. Continue to do the usual
activities with your child. Even though your gifted
child may already have a penchant for reading their
books, it is important as a parent that you still spend
time with and read aloud to them.
Encourage your child to learn about and discover many
different areas of interest and a wide variety of
subject matter. Encourage growth in a well rounded
educational experience for your gifted child.
One of
characteristics of a gifted child is that the child is
constantly curious and asking questions and as the
parent you need to stay engaged and try to fully explain
your answer.
Short, vague, and non detailed answers will
often time only lead to more questions and frustration
on the part of the child. In some cases gifted children
struggle with the frustration factor simply because, as
mentioned earlier, although their reasoning skills are
advanced, their emotional development is on par with
their chronological age and they have trouble expressing
themselves to their own satisfaction.
As a parent of a gifted child, consider seeking out
other parents in this unique situation and share ideas
and experiences among one another. It takes persistence
on your part to stay engaged and involved in the
upbringing and development of your child.
Always respect
the uniqueness of the child and their opinions, ideas,
and thought processes. Because of the uniqueness of the
child, they may find it difficult for themselves to fit
in with other children and feel out of sync. This
unfortunately can be the reality of the outside world,
so while at home make sure your child knows that they
are loved and appreciated for who they are.
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