One of the biggest concerns for those considering
homeschooling and one of the biggest arguments
against homeschooling by those who aren't, is the
aspect of the perceived lack of socialization skills
by kids who are being home schooled.
The more I became involved in homeschooling the
quicker I realized those involved in the
homeschooling community are actually quite normal.
Imagine that! Probably the biggest surprise to me
initially was how well behaved and adjusted the
teenage kids were. I saw an article somewhere where
the author also mentioned this.
I would wholeheartedly
agree. The respect, the willingness to accept
responsibility, and the overall maturity level was
refreshing. And the many friendships the kids and us have
developed through the years are gold.
Lack of social
exposure and skills for home schooled kids, not an issue at all. My
kids, have taken music lessons, been involved in all kinds of sports,
and many other activities and have made friends that they still enjoy
today. You know socialization isn't always a positive experience,
especially for kids, and especially in today's society. As a
homeschooler, I always felt that I could have my children in a positive
environment, and an environment that I could keep moving forward in a
positive manor. I believe that results follow what you focus on. And if
you focus on defending and discussing all of the potential alleged
negative aspects of homeschooling then negative it is. I believe in
taking advantage of the unique situation that homeschooling offers and
that is that you set the agenda and the tone of the day.... And I choose
positive. And you should too!
Homeschooling isn't
about being enslaved at home or in a fairy tale bubble while growing up
a home. Quite the contrary. Part of your homeschool lesson plan should
involve getting involved in the community, attending community
activities, field trips to various businesses and historical places, and
on and on.
Homeschooling and
socialization issues?
Only if you allow them. For my money homeschooling promotes family and
community socialization not inhibits it.
